Faking orgasms is common among women unfortunately. They do this for so many reasons. Most of the time it is not you though; they simply may not be able to orgasm during sex as many women aren’t able to. However, when she does orgasm you need to know if it is real or fake or not so that you know exactly what you need to do. So how do you tell if she is faking it? Most of the time, you will not be able to tell if she is having an orgasm or not. This is because there are no real signs to it, other than her telling you she is having an orgasm or making sounds like she is. It takes a lot for a woman to orgasm and by knowing what those things are will help you to make sure she has one each and every time.
First you should look for signals of blood flow, since this is what will tell you that she is sexual aroused. Her cheeks may get a little redder or look like they are blushing. When a woman has an orgasm, the blood flow to her face will become more intense and she will look like she is blushing. This is a telltale sign that she really is having an orgasm. Also, her nipples may become erect, especially during an orgasm. This is also because of the blood flow as well as the fact that they become hard when she is sexually aroused. Finally if her labia, or the “lips” on her vagina are slightly swollen and reddened, it is a good indication that she is actually having an orgasm and not just faking it.
All of the blood flow signals can be seen during or just after a woman climaxes. You can also feel the tiny twitches in her vagina that happen naturally during an orgasm. Although they are hard to feel, and some women do not get them, it is also a good clue that she did indeed have an orgasm. Women for the most part have orgasms during the same parts of sex, so you can almost guarantee that she is really having orgasms if it happens around the same time or while you are doing certain things. If your orgasms seem completely random, then she may be faking it.
Your obvious goal is to make her have an orgasm each time, and the best way to do that is to simply ask her what makes her orgasm. You may be pleasantly surprised at her answers. It may be something simple that you haven’t thought about and that is easy to incorporate into your lovemaking. By communicating your need to please her, she will be more than happy to tell you what really works.
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